Reigniting the Love Spark for Cuffing Season [Guest Post]

Ready for Cuffing Season?

This is the time traditionally during the long cold winter months when you want to lock in love.

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How to Fall in Love Again for Cuffing Season

3 ways to reignite the spark in your relationship

Even if you and your partner are the perfect match, it can be challenge with so many distractions to keep the flame in your relationship alive.

The good news is, if things are feeling a little flat between you and your other half, there are some simple steps you can take to reignite the spark.

Whoo hoo!

Here are three simple but necessary love boosters to get you started:

  1. DO! Show your partner you appreciate them.

Taking the love of your life for granted can be a real romance killer, so it’s important to show that special someone you appreciate them. This can be as easy as remembering to thank them for the things they do around the house, or giving them little unexpected gifts from time to time. These modest gestures can help to keep the bond between you strong and they can stop emotional distance from creeping into your relationship.

Make the effort to mark anniversaries too. These yearly celebrations can help to remind you both why you got together in the first place and how far you’ve come as a couple.

  1. DO! Address any problems with physical intimacy.

Every other week on Abiola’s ESSENCE column, someone rights about ignoring physical intimacy, which becomes a HUGE issue.

There are no set rules when it comes to physical intimacy with your other half. Passion can take many forms and it’s bound to evolve in your relationship over time. That said, if you or your other half are experiencing sexy-time problems between the sheets and this is harming your relationship, it’s important to address these issues.

If you don’t take action, there’s a risk they could start to drive you apart. It’s important to be aware that many women have problems with intimacy at some point in their lives, from loss of desire to pain during intercourse. These issues can be triggered by exhaustion, depression, medications, hormones and a range of other things. If you’re experiencing difficulties, it’s a good idea to speak to your doctor. They should be able to recommend a treatment.

Similarly, if your partner is having difficulties, encourage them to do something about it. Bear in mind that erectile dysfunction (ED), which is a common problem among men, can be a sign of an underlying health problem such as high blood pressure, diabetes or high cholesterol – so it’s not something that should be ignored. ED is primarily treated by tackling the cause of the issue, and there are targeted medicines available too. For example, it’s possible to get Viagra from LloydsPharmacy Online Doctor and your own doctor or pharmacist. This does not in any way constitute medical advice. You have to know what is best for you.

  1. Try new activities together.

Starting a new activity can be an enriching experience, and it’s all the more so if you do it with your love. Whether you get stuck into arts and crafts, try out a fun, new dance class, learn sacred meditation techniques, finally give healing yoga a go, test your skills at a different sport or start cooking lessons, these activities will give you the chance to spend some quality time together and they’ll also give you something new to talk about. It’s easy to get stuck in a rut when you’re in a long-term relationship, so mixing things up by embarking on something new should help to keep things interesting and fresh.

Loving, lasting, juicy partnerships take work, but reignition suggestions like these should help you to keep your bond with your other half strong.


 

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